This post is
specifically dedicated to all the single ladies…who feel dejected on Valentine's Day!
I know the level of crossness and irascibility one faces
when she hears another lady’s monologue on her potential date with her beau….but
let me tell you something, there is no need to be irritable because this is a
chance for us “Singlelets” to enjoy and live the true essence of valentine’s day.
We are phenomenal women who don’t necessarily need a man to
make us happy because we can do various other things to make us happy anyway….. things we have been dying to do….things that we love
to do with a self-allowance to be crazy for a day. Being a part of a couple, a
person might not have the liberty to do everything he/she likes because there
are limitations one succumbs to keeping in mind the other partner’s likes and
interests towards certain activities; so many a times couples end up
sacrificing for each other and in the end, they might not even have a good
time. It’s true, I have heard many stories about ruined valentine’s day which I
will be very careful not to mention here.
So what could go wrong in a date with yourself? You could
hit a club, a park, a beach, a spa, a library, a museum, a bar, an orphanage, a
culinary center…the list is endless…. Or you could host an all single gal &guy
party- an interesting chance to meet someone if you are interested.
It’s definitely great to have someone in your life to share
your happiness, grief, eventful happenings etc…but what is more important than
that is the realization that you are responsible for your own happiness. Let this day
be about you, knowing you, loving you like never before, and pampering you like
never before so that when you wake up the very next day, you wake up with a feeling
of fulfillment towards life.
So make this day about you and your interests; because on
all the other days you keep your identity aside and live a professional life on
somebody else’s direction. So, when was last time you spent quality time with
the real you. All the great movie scripts written till date by writers were
when they were on a vacation to a lonely distant island away from friends and
family and they have always managed to come up with master pieces. This is
because the lonely times spent by the writers on their own gave them a chance
to look at the story in a different outlook without an external perspective which
reflected the purity of their thoughts and gave the story a beautiful shape. So
when are you planning to craft a beautiful story of your own with your own pure
thoughts? You can always take advises from others but never let their
standpoints affect yours because this is your own path of life with a completely different story. This valentine’s day is all
yours, give yourself enough time to craft a beautiful story about your life so that you are
responsible for your own happiness.
Happy Valentine’s day!!!
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